#4 – Growing Apart
It’s natural for people to change over time, but when couples stop growing together, they often grow apart. Life brings new experiences, challenges, and personal growth. Without shared goals and a commitment to evolve together, many couples find themselves feeling more like strangers than partners.
Signs You’re Growing Apart:
- You stop spending quality time together.
- You have fewer shared interests or goals.
- Conversations feel like small talk, rather than meaningful discussions.
- You stop working as a team and start living parallel lives.
Did You Know?
Research from the National Marriage Project shows that couples who spend regular, dedicated time together each week are more likely to stay happily married. In fact, couples who spend at least 5 hours a week doing things together report a 50% higher level of marital satisfaction.
Poll
Question for the Reader: How do you and your partner ensure you continue growing together?
Real Story:
For Mark and Jenny, the first few years of marriage were fun and exciting. But as their interests and careers shifted, they began to drift apart. They no longer spent time doing things together, and their conversations became surface-level. Eventually, they realized they were living two separate lives.
Actionable Tip:
Set shared goals that you both work towards, whether it’s a vacation, a financial milestone, or even a hobby you both enjoy. Growth is inevitable—make sure it’s something you both participate in.